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The Selfless Parent v Selfish Non Mum

I am so sick of the word selfish being synonymous with childfree people. Why am I called selfish when I am simply living a life of my choosing? Yet a parent is selfless even though they too are living a life of their choosing. The assumption…
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Childfree travel can be hard for 1 reason….

Holidays are the best. I love getting away for work and play, experiencing new things, and seeing the world There is only one problem. Having to travel with other people’s kids. We have all experienced it and even parents don’t like…
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The ‘baby fantasy’ promise

Mums I am calling you out! I am not a mum. Never wanted to be and was never sold on the idea in a way that made it sound remotely appealing to me. I never understood the baby fantasy. This idea that you’re going to have this perfect…

How mums and childfree women can co-exist happily!

I am all about the C-word – CHOICE! All women should do what is right for them and their life. This is why I understand that having friends with kids can be like a subtle dance at times. Many of my long term friends have children and I will…

Creating my own version of a Childfree Gender Reveal party

If you love seen the news recently you will likely have seen the article about a massive bushfire brining our of control that was caused by a gene Der reveal party mishap. As a Childfree woman, I am so over the constant gratification and…

Men, shut your mouth about my choice to be childfree

I find it ironic that men are so anti-childfree women. They aren’t the ones that have to carry the baby, birth it or raise it, so they know little about the subject in general. How dare they have an opinion about what I want to do with MY body

Do you have childfree friends? Here are some Do’s and Don’t’s to help your friendship stay strong

I am lucky to be surrounded with supportive friends. I wouldn’t have it any other way and anyone who wasn’t supportive is no longer in my life. I have friends with kids and friends without. Many of my lifelong friends have children and…

What it's like to have a vasectomy.

Much of the conversation about permanent solutions that allow us to not have kids are focused on women. However, more and more men, are choosing to have a vasectomy as they choose to live a childfree life. I asked Caleb Norris to share his…
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I am childfree and I just as busy as you mums!!

One of my pet peeves is people telling me I am not busy because I don’t kids! Ahh!!!!! I am not sure how mothers got the exclusive contract on the word busy? Someone, please tell me how their time is more important than mine? We are…
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Subtle pressure of expectation

As women, one of the biggest pressures to have children often comes from your parents or family. I have friends and co-workers who have shared stories with me of not really wanting kids or sitting on the fence about kids, yet, still deciding…