Not 100% sure if you want children?
helps you work out if kids are
an ‘if’ not ‘when’ in your life
AVAILABLE NOW
helps you work out if kids are
Not 100% sure if you
want children?
AVAILABLE NOW
UNDECIDED will help you to work out if you want to have children, learn how to manage the pressure and expectations you might be getting, understand what both options look like in real life, and get your loved ones to accept your choice.
It provides a step-by-step framework that looks at the key areas that might impact your decision including:
- How to navigate expectations & difficult conversations
- How to manage your loved ones when they are pressuring you to have children
- How to deal with the question of regret
- PLUS hear first-hand stories from other women (mums and non-mums)
- And so much more!
The program is designed to provide support and mentoring for people who are not 100% sure if kids are for them AND for people who are childfree by struggling with getting pressure from your loved ones and need some help to navigate it all.
The program is designed to provide support and mentoring for people who are not 100% sure if kids are for them AND for people who are childfree by struggling with getting pressure from your loved ones and need some help to navigate it all.
“This program has helped me immensely. Thank you for doing this important work and being a lifeline for women like me.” – Erin
ABOUT THE PROGRAM
Close to 1 in 4 women are now deciding not to have children but where do you go to have those conversations that will help you decide what is best for you. Often there is pressure from family, partners, and even friends who just want a playmate for their child which means you might be getting selfish and biased information that is not providing you with the support or advice that you probably need. This program is not about encouraging you to not have children. The focus is all about CHOICE and working out what is right for you, and no one else!
UNDECIDED will help you to address common questions and issues, understand how to manage the expectations you’re facing, have the conversations that are needed, hear stories of people just like you and give you practical exercises to help you figure out what is best for you.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This isn’t for everyone. It is primarily for people who are undecided about having kids and are struggling to make a decision. PLUS it is also for childfree people who are struggling with ongoing pressure and judgment from people around them and would like support and guidance to help them with this struggle. Does this sound like you?
You might not know if you actually want kids but everyone keeps telling you that you should.
You might be feeling pressured by your partner or family.
You might be in your 30’s and feel the pressure of time as your options are decreasing
You might be concerned about how it is going to impact your career trajectory
You might be scared about how it will impact your current lifestyle
You might have decided to be Childfree but are still facing pressure or expectation from your loved ones (and just don’t know how to handle it without upsetting them but still doing what is best for you).
You might be anxious and stressed about making this life-changing decision and worried you will regret whatever choice you make
The foundation of the program is broken into 3 key areas that impact your decision:
PRESSURE
- Why society places pressure on women to procreate
- Common judgments, questions, and criticism you can expect
- Expectation from family & friends and how to manage that pressure confidently
EMOTION
- Consider your why and how you are feeling right now
- What are your values and do they align with your choice?
- Knowing the conversations you need to have to help you move forward
- Finding fulfillment in life, based on your choice
IMPACTS OF YOUR CHOICE
- Career and work
- Impacts on life if you choose kids
- Impacts on life if you choose to have no kids
- Dealing with Regret
WHAT’S INCLUDED
- KICK STARTER
- ✔ Covers 3 key areas in basic format
✔ Audio & video commentary
✔ Limited downloads and simple exercises
- FULL PROGRAM
- ✔ Covers 3 key areas in a high level of detail
✔ Audio & video commentary
✔ Extensive downloadable PDF’s
✔ More exercises within the additional modules
✔ Many interviews with women about the many facets covered
✔ Additional Tools to help you make the decision
✔ Access to additional support
“Tanya, the programme is amazing! Can’t fault it! Absolutely inspiring. An inspiration and so supportive of my choices.”
– Gemma
OUTCOMES OF THE UNDECIDED PROGRAM
- Provide you with a clear plan forward.
- Give you the ability to manage and respond to judgment and criticism about your choice.
- Provide a non-judgemental and supportive space to explore your feelings about having or not having kids.
- Hear stories from mums and non-mums and how they handled making this decision + how they have designed their lives to work for them.
- Provide access to interviews from experts in various areas.
- Someone to talk to about how you’re feeling.
- Learn how having or not having kids can impact career trajectory.
- Let you see your options and how life looks like on both sides.
- Give you practical & relevant exercises to help you decide what is right for you.
- Guide conversations you should have with partners & family.
- Share options for having children and the sacrifices that might be needed.
- Help you minimise regret, expectations, and common questions.
- Hear stories from women with all different circumstances (childfree by choice, circumstance, mums who love it and regret it).
- Feel content and less anxious about your future.
UNDECIDED IS FOR ANYONE WHO NEEDS SUPPORT TO FEEL CONFIDENT ABOUT THEIR CHOICES
WHAT IS THE INVESTMENT IN MY FUTURE HAPPINESS?
Start with the FREE KICK STARTER program
The good news is there is a free version of the UNDECIDED program available straight away.
Just download it from the Apple App Store or Google Play Store.
Upgrade to the FULL program
for $997AU (one-off payment)
If you want to explore and go deeper into the program, then you can upgrade to the full program. The full UNDECIDED program includes interviews with women who share their stories, valuable exercises, and downloads not available in the free version.
You have likely spent tens of thousands of dollars on your degree, education for your career, or self-development courses to learn new skills. These are all things you can change in your life.
So spending a small amount to help you with a major life decision is an easy and obvious choice. The investment in this program is one into your future happiness. This is in Australian dollars so the final price can vary slightly depending on your local currency and exchange rates at the time.
NB: SEE SPECIAL FOUNDATION OFFER FOR FIRST 10 PEOPLE
SPECIAL OFFER FOR FOUNDATION MEMBERS – ONLY $397AU
The Full Undecided program is yet to be finalised but that could be good news for you.
Founding members get a massive discount on launch as I perfect the learnings and resources that are included.
I want to work with a small group of women who feel ready to tackle this right now. There is an application process because I only have room for 10 women in this Foundation Round. This is not marketing spin – this is based on my capacity. And because I want you to provide feedback and insights along the way, you get it for a massive discount…. Only $397 AU (instead of $997 AU)
To apply you need to click on the button below and fill out your details then I will come back to you super fast to let you know if you made the cut. Don’t worry filling out the application doesn’t mean you have to join the Foundation program. It just starts our conversation to make sure you are the right fit for this.
Deciding if not when you should have kids is THE BIGGEST DECISION YOU WILL EVER MAKE in your life, so you need to be 100% sure of your choice.
HERE’S WHAT TO DO NEXT:
FREE KICK STARTER
- On your phone or tablet, go to Apple App Store or Google Play Store and search for the Undecided App
- Download and install the app.
FULL UNDECIDED Program
- On your phone or iPad, go to the App Store and search for the Undecided App
- Download and install the app.
- Make payment.
- Register your details and create your account.
- Then you are in and have access to the program.
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GOT CONCERNS?
LET’S TACKLE THEM…
Will I get pressured to be childfree?
NO, definitely not. I am and the program is all about CHOICE. This program is designed to help you, not to add more pressure on your decision. It provides insights and resources from both mothers and non-mothers, based on their personal experiences.
What does this program cost?
The full program is a one-off payment of $997AU + GST. You will see a charge based on the currency conversation rate if you are outside of Australia.
I am not sure about the investment?
You have likely paid thousands of dollars for other self-help and development programs so why wouldn’t you invest in the biggest decision you make in your life? This is a tiny investment for some big peace of mind.
How much time will this take?
It takes as long or as little time to suit you as you can leisurely take your take working through the content, picking what is most relevant for you. Or you can dive in with gusto and power through it. The choice is yours.
WHY YOU SHOULDN’T LEAVE THIS CHOICE
I have tried to keep the investment low to help as many people as possible. Don’t miss your chance to get access to the only program of its kind in the world…one that will help you make one of the biggest decisions in your life.
WHY YOU WILL LOVE IT
I ask that you spend at 4 months minimum on the program and this is why? Firstly, each month covers a different theme or topic and secondly you need to spend time immersed in the program to get the benefits from it. You cannot do that in only 1 month. If after 4 months, you don’t think the program is for you then you can cancel the remainder of your subscription.
Based on the feedback I have received so far, I would be very surprised if you don’t love it.
“I found Tanya’s program to be very helpful with making my decision. I loved the articles and exercises, but especially the interviews. You always read about people who are childfree but never see real-life people talking about their decision. It just makes you realize you’re not alone and others have the same exact feelings.” Christina
“Tanya the program is amazing! Can’t fault it! Absolutely inspiring. An inspiration and so supportive of my choices”. Gemma
“What a great idea. Something that is much needed” Silke
“Love this initiative” Katherine
ABOUT THE PROGRAM CREATOR
My name is Tanya Williams and I am a 47 year old childfree woman by choice. I am the author of the Amazon #1 Best Selling book A Childfree Happily Ever After, a childfree advocate, ‘go to’ person for comments about childfree topics and supportor of women who want to do what is right for their life.
I knew at a young age I didn’t want children. I never had the desire and innately knew what was right for me however many of my friends and the women around struggled with this choice. I have experienced many different situations, dealt with more criticism and judgment than I care to admit to, and understand the pressure and expectation you are likely feeling right now.
The key message in all my work is based on the C Word – CHOICE! Women choosing to do what is right for them and not other people. I have friends with no kids and friends with 1 ,2, 3, 4 kids but the key is mutual respect and support for our life choices. I want everyone to have that in their life which is why I created this program. To help women (and men) make one of the biggest decisions you will ever make, hopefully without regret.
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WHY YOU SHOULD JOIN?
This is an investment in you and your future happiness. Making this decision is huge and knowing what you are getting yourself into (either way) is something I hear mums say all the time. The one phrase is one I hear constantly “I wish I had’ve had a better understanding of what being a mother looked like….”
Don’t let that be you….
I invite you to Join the UNDECIDED Program and feel better, more confident and less anxious about this big life choice.
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If you have more questions, please email me directly and I am more than happy to help you.
tanya@childfreehappilyeerafter.com.au
You will also find some FAQ’s here
I hope you jump on board the program and I look forward to getting to know you as we progress through the program.
You can get details of the Corporate Program here